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Term of Use

This is a legal agreement ("Agreement") between you and InChristWeTrust, Inc., a Massachusetts corporation ("InChristWeTrust"), which may be contacted at 394 Warren Street, Boston, Massachusetts 02119. By accessing the InChristWeTrust U.S. web site, currently located atwww.InChristWeTrustwetrust.org (the "Site"), and using any of the Services (as defined below) accessible through the Site, you become a user and agree to, and are bound by, the terms and conditions of this Agreement for as long as you continue to use the Site or Services. IF YOU DO NOT AGREE TO BE BOUND BY THIS AGREEMENT, DO NOT USE THE SITE OR THE SERVICES. Your use of, or participation in, certain Services may be subject to additional terms, and such terms will be either listed in this Agreement or will be presented to you for your acceptance when you sign up to use such Services.

The InChristWeTrust services consist of the following, without limitation: a service for single people ("Singles Service"), interactive content and community services such as InChristWeTrust Advice ("Content Services"), any premium services offered by or on behalf of InChristWeTrust ("Premium Services") (collectively, the "Services"). InChristWeTrust may offer additional services or revise any of the Services, at its discretion, and this Agreement will apply to all additional services or revised Services. InChristWeTrust also reserves the right to cease offering any of the Services.

Please review this Agreement carefully, including the Arbitration provision in Section 15, which describes how Disputes (as defined below) will be resolved between us, and that no class actions may be brought under this Agreement.

This Agreement is subject to change by InChristWeTrust in its sole discretion at any time, and any such changes will be posted on the Site. Your continued use of this Site or the Services after the posting of revisions to this Agreement will constitute your acceptance of such revisions. Please consult the end of this Agreement to determine when the Agreement was last revised.



1. Eligibility.

Minimum Age. You must be at least 18 years old to use the Site or to register for the Services. By using the Singles Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old. Other Services may have other age requirements for all or portion of such Services, and such other age requirements are stated on such Services or portions thereof.
Marital Status. By requesting to use, registering to use, or using the Singles Service, you represent and warrant that you are not married. If you are separated, but not yet legally divorced, you may not request to use, register to use, or use the Singles Service.
Criminal History. By requesting to use, registering to use, and/or using the Singles Service, you represent and warrant that you have never been convicted of a felony and/or are not required to register as a sex offender with any government entity. INCHRISTWETRUST DOES NOT CURRENTLY CONDUCT CRIMINAL BACKGROUND SCREENINGS ON ITS MEMBERS. However, InChristWeTrust reserves the right to conduct any criminal background check, at any time and using available public records, to confirm your compliance with this subsection. BY AGREEING TO THESE TERMS AND CONDITIONS, YOU HEREBY AUTHORIZE ANY SUCH CHECK.
Meeting Matching System Criteria. The Singles Service requires your completion of the Relationship Questionnaire, along with InChristWeTrust's ability to find good matches for you. Occasionally, the InChristWeTrust matching system cannot identify high quality compatible matches for a given individual, in which case the Singles Service cannot be provided. As a user of the Site or a user registered to use any of the Services (a "Registered User"), you agree to the following:
2. Use of Site and Service.
Exclusive Use. Your account is for your personal use only. You may not authorize others to use your account, and you may not assign or otherwise transfer your account to any other person or entity. You acknowledge that InChristWeTrust is not responsible for third party access to your account that results from theft or misappropriation of your user names and passwords.
Geographic Limitations. The Site and Services are intended for use in the United States. You will only use the Services in a manner consistent with this Agreement and any and all applicable local, state, national and international laws and regulations, including, but not limited to, United States export control laws. By using the Services, you represent that you have not been designated by the United States government as a "Specially Designated National" or other person to whom the provisions of the Services are prohibited. Registration for, and use of, the Services are void where prohibited. You are responsible for determining whether the user of the Services is legal in your jurisdiction
Information Submitted. You are solely responsible for, and assume all liability regarding, (i) the information and content you contribute to the Service; (ii) the information and content you post, transmit, publish, or otherwise make available (hereinafter "post") through the Services; and (iii) your interactions with other Registered Users through the Services. In addition to sharing your information with your matches, we may allow your matches to share your profile information with members of their social network(s).
Risk Assumption and Precautions. You assume all risk when using the Services, including but not limited to all of the risks associated with any online or offline interactions with others, including dating. You agree to take all necessary precautions when meeting individuals through the Singles Service. In addition, you agree to review and follow the recommendations set forth in InChristWeTrust's Safety Tips, which will be provided to you prior to entering the "InChristWeTrust Mail" phase with your matches in the Singles Service and is available at the bottom of all pages of the Singles Service.
No Guarantees. InChristWeTrust may not be able to provide matches for everyone seeking to use its services. Further, InChristWeTrust makes no guarantees as to the number or frequency of matches through the Singles Service , or to such matches' ability, desire or criteria to communicate with any user. You understand that InChristWeTrust makes no guarantees, either express or implied, regarding your ultimate compatibility with individuals you meet through the Singles Service or as to the conduct of such individuals.
Reporting of Violations. You will promptly report to InChristWeTrust any violation of the Agreement by others, including but not limited to, Registered Users.
Content Removal. InChristWeTrust reserves the right, but has no obligation, to monitor the information or material you submit to the Services or post in the public areas of the Services. InChristWeTrust will have the right to remove any such information or material that in its sole opinion violates, or may violate, any applicable law or either the letter or spirit of this Agreement or upon the request of any third party. InChristWeTrust further reserves the right to remove matches previously delivered to you, in its reasonable discretion, in order to assure that you have a quality experience on the Site.
Posting and Communication Restrictions. You will not post on the Services, transmit to other users, communicate any content (or links thereto), or otherwise engage in any activity on the Site or through the Services, that:
promotes racism, bigotry, hatred or physical harm of any kind against any group or individual;
is intended to or tends to harass, annoy, threaten or intimidate any other users of the Site or Services;
is defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, obscene, profane, offensive, sexually oriented, obscene or otherwise objectionable;
contains others' copyrighted content (e.g., music, movies, videos, photographs, images, software, etc.) without obtaining permission first;
contains video, audio photographs, or images of another person without his or her permission (or in the case of a minor, the minor's legal guardian);
promotes or enables illegal or unlawful activities, such as instructions on how to make or buy illegal weapons or drugs, violate someone's privacy, harm or harass another person, obtain others' identity information, create or disseminate computer viruses, or circumvent copy-protect devices;
intended to defraud, swindle or deceive other users of the Services;
contains viruses, time bombs, trojan horses, cancelbots, worms or other harmful, or disruptive codes, components or devices;
promotes or solicits involvement in or support of a political platform, religion, cult, or sect;
disseminates another person's personal information without his or her permission, or collects or solicits another person's personal information for commercial or unlawful purposes;
is off-topic, meaningless, or otherwise intended to annoy or interfere with others' enjoyment of the Site;
impersonates, or otherwise misrepresents affiliation, connection or association with, any person or entity;
solicits gambling or engages in any gambling or similar activity;
uses scripts, bots or other automated technology to access the Site or Services;
uses the Site or Services for chain letter, junk mail or spam e-mails;
collects or solicits personal information about anyone under 18; or
is in any way used for or in connection with spamming, spimming, phishing, trolling, or similar activities.
In addition to the above, postings on the Content Services currently known as InChristWeTrust Advice ("Advice") will follow the Advice Community Standards , in addition to the terms of this Agreement.
No False Information. You will not provide inaccurate, misleading or false information to InChristWeTrust or to any other user. If information provided to InChristWeTrust or another user subsequently becomes inaccurate, misleading or false, you will promptly notify InChristWeTrust of such change.
No Advertising or Commercial Solicitation. You will not advertise or solicit any user to buy or sell any products or services through the Site or Services. You may not transmit any chain letters, junk or spam e-mail to other users. Further, you will not use any information obtained from the Services in order to contact, advertise to, solicit, or sell to any user without their prior explicit consent. If you breach the terms of this subsection and send or post unsolicited bulk email, "spam" or other unsolicited communications of any kind through the Services, you acknowledge that you will have caused substantial harm to InChristWeTrust, but that the amount of such harm would be extremely difficult to ascertain. As a reasonable estimation of such harm, you agree to pay InChristWeTrust $50 for each such unsolicited communication you send through the Services.
Unique and Bona Fide Profile. As a Registered User of the Singles Service, you will create only one unique profile. In addition, your use of the Singles Service must be for bona fide relationship-seeking purposes in order to maintain the integrity of the Singles Service (for example, you may not become a Registered User solely to compile a report of compatible singles in your area, or to write a school research paper). Not all registered users are available for matching. From time to time, InChristWeTrust may create test profiles in order to monitor the operation of the Services.
Selection of Profiles. From time to time, your profile may be selected to introduce you to specific compatible matches, in which case we may offer you a limited complimentary subscription (if you are not already a subscriber) in order to enable you to meet such specific match. You will be under no obligation to accept such complimentary subscription or to meet with or communicate with the match(es) we may introduce to you.
No Harassment of InChristWeTrust Employees or Agents. You will not harass, annoy, intimidate or threaten any InChristWeTrust employees or agents engaged in providing any portion of the Services to you.
Social Media. We may provide you the option to connect your InChristWeTrust account to your account on some social networking sites (such as via Facebook Connect) for the purpose of logging in, uploading information or enabling certain features on the Service. When enabling this feature, we will disclose to you the information we collect from the connected social networking site, and will use such information in compliance with our Privacy Policy. Once connected, some of your matches may also be able to see information about your social network, such as the size of your network and your friends, including common friends. By connecting your InChristWeTrust account to your account on any social networking site, you hereby consent to the continuous release of information about you to InChristWeTrust. We will not send any of your InChristWeTrust account information to the connected social networking site without first disclosing that to you. You can always disconnect the accounts via your InChristWeTrust Account Settings page. Each social network may further allow you to set privacy controls around your information on their system, and InChristWeTrust’s collection of information will always follow such controls and permissions. This feature is subject to continuous change and improvement by us and each social networking site involved, and therefore the available features and shared information are subject to change without notice to you.
3. Proprietary Rights.
Ownership of Proprietary Information. You hereby acknowledge and agree that InChristWeTrust is the owner of highly valuable proprietary information, including without limitation, the patented compatibility matching system, compatibility profiles, and relationship questionnaires (collectively, "Confidential Information"). InChristWeTrust owns and hereby retains all proprietary rights in the Services and the Site, including but not limited to, all Confidential Information.
No Use of Confidential Information. You will not post, copy, modify, transmit, disclose, show in public, create any derivative works from, distribute, make commercial use of, or reproduce in any way any (i) Confidential Information or (ii) other copyrighted material, trademarks, or other proprietary information accessible via the Services, without first obtaining the prior written consent of the owner of such proprietary rights.
Other Users' Information. Other Registered Users may post copyrighted information, which has copyright protection whether or not it is identified as copyrighted. You agree that you will not copy, modify, publish, transmit, distribute, perform, display, commercially use, or sell any InChristWeTrust or third party proprietary information available via the Services or the Site.
License to Posted or Accessed Content. By posting information or content to any profile pages or public area of the Services, or making it accessible to us by linking your InChristWeTrust account to any of your social network accounts (e.g. via Facebook Connect), you automatically grant, and you represent and warrant that you have the right to grant, to InChristWeTrust and its users, an irrevocable, perpetual, non-exclusive, fully-paid, worldwide license to use, reproduce, publicly perform, publicly display and distribute such information and content, and to prepare derivative works of, or incorporate into other works, such information and content, and to grant and authorize sub-licenses of the foregoing. From time to time, we may create, test or implement new features or programs on the Site in which you may voluntarily choose to participate or may be a part of a test group with special access, in accordance with the additional terms and conditions of such features or programs. By your participation in such features or programs, you grant us the rights stated in this subsection in connection with the additional terms and conditions (if any) of such features or programs.
4. User Information.
Privacy Statement. For information about the collection and possible use of information and material provided by you, please click on InChristWeTrust's Privacy Statement located on the Site. By using the Site or the Services, you are consenting to the terms of InChristWeTrust's Privacy Statement.
No Contact Information. You agree that you will not post any e-mail addresses, personal website address or profile page you may have on a third party website, or other contact information in the "About Me" section of the Singles Service or in any other communications you may have with other users. You may, at your discretion, exchange such information after you reach the "InChristWeTrust Mail" phase with your match.
Disclosure By Law. You acknowledge and agree that InChristWeTrust may disclose information you provide if required to do so by law, at the request of a third party, or if we, in our sole discretion, believe that disclosure is reasonable to (1) comply with the law, requests or orders from law enforcement, or any legal process (whether or not such disclosure is required by applicable law); (2) protect or defend InChristWeTrust's, or a third party's, rights or property; or (3) protect someone's health or safety, such as when harm or violence against any person (including the user) is threatened.
Disclosure to Protect Abuse Victims. Notwithstanding any other provision of this Agreement or the Privacy Statement, InChristWeTrust reserves the right, but has no obligation, to disclose any information that you submit to the Services, if in its sole opinion, InChristWeTrust suspects or has reason to suspect, that the information involves a party who may be the victim of abuse in any form. Abuse may include, without limitation, elder abuse, child abuse, spousal abuse, neglect, or domestic violence. Information may be disclosed to authorities that InChristWeTrust, in its sole discretion, deems appropriate to handle such disclosure. Appropriate authorities may include, without limitation, law enforcement agencies, child protection agencies, or court officials. You hereby acknowledge and agree that InChristWeTrust is permitted to make such disclosure.
Use of Anonymous Information for Research. By using the Services, you agree to allow InChristWeTrust to anonymously use the information from you and your experiences through the Services to continue InChristWeTrust's research into successful relationships and to improve the Services. This research, conducted by psychologists and behavior research scientists, may be published in academic journals. However, all of your responses will be anonymous, and we will not publish research containing your personal identifying information.The Services may contain links to web sites of third-parties, including without limitation, advertisers, which are not under the control of InChristWeTrust, and InChristWeTrust is not responsible for the content of any linked site or any link contained in a linked site, or any changes or updates to such web sites. InChristWeTrust provides these links to you only as a convenience, and the inclusion of any link does not imply that InChristWeTrust endorses or accepts any responsibility for the content on such third-party web site. Your correspondence or business dealings with, or participation in promotions of, advertisers or sweepstakes sponsors found on or through the Services (including payment and delivery of related goods or services, any personal information or opt-in contact information voluntarily given to advertisers and sweepstake sponsors, and any other terms, conditions, warranties or representations associated with such dealings) are solely between you and such advertiser or sweepstakes sponsor. You agree that InChristWeTrust will not be responsible or liable for any loss or damage of any sort incurred as the result of any such dealings, including the sharing of the information you supply to InChristWeTrust with advertisers or sweepstakes sponsors, or as the result of the presence of such advertisers on the Services. Please visit our Privacy Statement to learn more about how we use your information. 6. Disclaimer of Warranty.

5. Links to Third-Party Web Sites / Dealings with Advertisers and Sponsors.
No Warranties. THIS SECTION WILL APPLY TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW. INCHRISTWETRUST PROVIDES THE SERVICES ON AN "AS IS" AND "AS AVAILABLE" BASIS AND GRANTS NO WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND, WHETHER EXPRESS, IMPLIED, STATUTORY OR OTHERWISE WITH RESPECT TO THE SERVICES OR THE SITE (INCLUDING ALL INFORMATION CONTAINED THEREIN), INCLUDING ANY IMPLIED WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY, FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE OR NON-INFRINGEMENT. INCHRISTWETRUST DOES NOT WARRANT THAT YOUR USE OF THE SERVICES WILL BE SECURE, UNINTERRUPTED, ALWAYS AVAILABLE, ERROR-FREE OR WILL MEET YOUR REQUIREMENTS, OR THAT ANY DEFECTS IN THE SERVICES WILL BE CORRECTED. INCHRISTWETRUST DISCLAIMS LIABILITY FOR, AND NO WARRANTY IS MADE WITH RESPECT TO, THE CONNECTIVITY AND AVAILABILITY OF THE SERVICES.
Third Party Content. Opinions, advice, statements, offers, or other information or content made available through the Services, but not directly by InChristWeTrust, are those of their respective authors, and should not necessarily be relied upon. Such authors are solely responsible for such content. INCHRISTWETRUST DOES NOT: (i) GUARANTEE THE ACCURACY, COMPLETENESS OR USEFULNESS OF ANY INFORMATION PROVIDED ON THE SERVICES, OR (ii) ADOPT, ENDORSE OR ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE ACCURACY OR RELIABILITY OF ANY OPINION, ADVICE, OR STATEMENT MADE BY ANY PARTY OTHER THAN INCHRISTWETRUST. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WILL INCHRISTWETRUST BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY LOSS OR DAMAGE RESULTING FROM ANYONE'S RELIANCE ON INFORMATION OR OTHER CONTENT POSTED ON THE SERVICES, OR TRANSMITTED TO OR BY ANY USERS.
Beta Features. From time to time, InChristWeTrust may offer new "beta" features or tools with which its users may experiment on the Services. Such features or tools are offered solely for experimental purposes and without any warranty of any kind, and may be modified or discontinued at InChristWeTrust's sole discretion. The provisions of this Disclaimer of Warranty section apply with full force to such features or tools.
7. Limitation of Liability.
Incidental Damages and Aggregate Liability. TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, IN NO EVENT WILL INCHRISTWETRUST BE LIABLE FOR ANY INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL OR INDIRECT DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF OR RELATING TO THE USE OR INABILITY TO USE THE SERVICES, INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION, DAMAGES FOR LOSS OR CORRUPTION OF DATA OR PROGRAMS, SERVICE INTERRUPTIONS AND PROCUREMENT OF SUBSTITUTE SERVICES, EVEN IF INCHRISTWETRUST KNOWS OR HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES. TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WILL INCHRISTWETRUST'S AGGREGATE LIABILITY, IN ANY FORM OF ACTION WHATSOEVER IN CONNECTION WITH THIS AGREEMENT OR THE USE OF THE SERVICES OR THE SITE, EXCEED THE PRICE PAID BY YOU FOR YOUR ACCOUNT, OR, IF YOU HAVE NOT PAID INCHRISTWETRUST FOR THE USE OF ANY SERVICES, THE AMOUNT OF US$25.00 OR ITS EQUIVALENT.
No Liability for non-InChristWeTrust Actions. TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, IN NO EVENT WILL INCHRISTWETRUST BE LIABLE FOR ANY DAMAGES WHATSOEVER, WHETHER DIRECT, INDIRECT, GENERAL, SPECIAL, COMPENSATORY, CONSEQUENTIAL, AND/OR INCIDENTAL, ARISING OUT OF OR RELATING TO THE CONDUCT OF YOU OR ANYONE ELSE IN CONNECTION WITH THE USE OF THE SERVICES, INCLUDING WITHOUT LIMITATION, BODILY INJURY, EMOTIONAL DISTRESS, AND/OR ANY OTHER DAMAGES RESULTING FROM COMMUNICATIONS OR MEETINGS WITH OTHER REGISTERED USERS OF THE SERVICES. THIS INCLUDES ANY CLAIMS, LOSSES OR DAMAGES ARISING FROM THE CONDUCT OF USERS WHO HAVE REGISTERED UNDER FALSE PRETENSES OR WHO ATTEMPT TO DEFRAUD OR HARM YOU.
Information Verification. InChristWeTrust and its contractors may use various ways of verifying information that users have provided. However, none of those ways are perfect, and you agree that InChristWeTrust and its contractors will have no liability to you arising from any incorrectly verified information.You agree to indemnify, defend and hold harmless InChristWeTrust, its subsidiary and parent companies, and each of their officers, directors, employees, agents and related third parties, for any losses, costs, liabilities and expenses (including reasonable attorneys’ fees) relating to or arising out of any third party claim that (a) your use of or inability to use the Site or Services, (b) any user postings made by you, (c) your violation of any terms of this Agreement or your violation of any rights of a third party, or (d) your violation of any applicable laws, rules or regulations. InChristWeTrust reserves the right, at its own cost, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter otherwise subject to indemnification by you, in which event you will fully cooperate with InChristWeTrust in asserting any available defenses. 9. Complaints / Law Enforcement Contact. We may use your email address to send you messages notifying you of important changes to the Services or special offers. Further, we may contact you by telephone if you voluntarily provide us with your telephone number, in order to communicate with you regarding the Services. If you do not want to receive such email messages or telephone calls (including at any wireless number you may have voluntarily provided us), please refer to our Privacy Statement to review your options. 11. Term and Termination.
12. Cancellations.
This Agreement will become effective upon your acceptance of the Agreement by your use of the Site or the Services and will remain in effect in perpetuity unless terminated hereunder. Either you or InChristWeTrust may terminate your account at any time, for any reason or no reason, without explanation, effective upon sending written notice to the other party. InChristWeTrust reserves the right to immediately suspend or terminate your access to any of the Services, without notice, for any reason or no reason. We also reserve the right to remove your account information or data from our Services and any other records at any time at our sole discretion. In the event your access to any of the Services is suspended due to the breach of this Agreement, you agree that all fees then paid to InChristWeTrust by you will be nonrefundable and all outstanding or pending payments will immediately be due. You may terminate your account by following the steps in the applicable section under "Cancellations" below, or by sending a notice of cancellation to: InChristWeTrust, Inc., Attn: Cancellations, P.O. Box 3640, Santa Monica, CA 90408 USA. Following any termination of any Registered User's use of the Singles Service, InChristWeTrust reserves the right to send a notice thereof to other Registered Users which whom you have corresponded.

10. Communication and Privacy.
To resolve a complaint regarding the Service, you should review our Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) by clicking on the Help link located at the bottom of any page of the InChristWeTrust website, or e-mail us by clicking here . Law enforcement officials may send correspondence (such as subpoenas, court orders and warrants) to InChristWeTrust via facsimile at (626) 628-3467. All other communication or inquiries sent to this facsimile number will be discarded.

8. Indemnification.
Cancellation At Any Time With No Refund. Except as otherwise stated in this section, you may cancel your registration or subscription to any Services at any time during the term of such registration or subscription or any renewal period by accessing the "Account Settings" page under the "My Settings" option on your membership home page, clicking on "Cancel My Subscription" or "Close Account" link, and providing the information requested. In such case, your subscription will terminate at the end of the subscription term for which you have paid, and you will not receive any refund for any unused days of such subscription term. If you purchase a subscription on an installation payment basis (such as three-part pay), your ability to cancel your membership as described above will be available to you only once your final installment payment has been paid.
3-Day Cancellation. Regarding the Singles Service, you, the buyer, may cancel the Agreement, without any penalty or obligation, at any time prior to midnight of the third business day following the date of this Agreement, excluding Sundays and holidays. To cancel this Agreement, mail or deliver a signed and dated notice, or send a telegram which states that you, the buyer, are canceling this Agreement, or words of similar effect. This notice under this Section shall be sent to InChristWeTrust, Inc., Attn: Cancellations, P.O. Box 3640, Santa Monica, CA 90408 USA. Please include the e-mail address associated with your InChristWeTrust account in this notice. You may receive further information on this process by clicking here. For Singles Services, the day that you submit a completed subscription form will be the date of this Agreement. Any refunds under this 3-day cancellation policy will be made within 10 days after InChristWeTrust's receipt of your cancellation notice.
Cancellation As a Result of Death or Disability. If by reason of death or disability you are unable to receive all Singles Services for which you contracted, you or your estate may elect to be relieved of the obligation to make payments for services other than those received before death or the onset of disability, except as provided in subsection (iii).
If you have prepaid any amount for the Singles Service, so much of the amount prepaid that is allocable to services that you have not received will be promptly refunded to you or your representative.
"Disability" means a condition which precludes you from physically using the Singles Service during the term of disability and the condition is verified in writing by a physician designated and remunerated by you. Written verification from the physician must be presented to InChristWeTrust.
If the physician determines that the duration of the disability will be less than six (6) months, InChristWeTrust may extend the term of the Single Services contract for a period of six (6) months at no additional charge to you in lieu of cancellation.In order to provide continuous service, InChristWeTrust automatically renews all paid subscriptions for the Services on the date such subscriptions expire. We always communicate renewal periods to you in the subscription plan page, before you finalize the purchase of your subscription, upon confirmation of purchase, and in the body of any special promotions sent to our users. By entering into this Agreement, you acknowledge that your account will be subject to the above-described automatic renewals. In all cases, if you do not wish your account to renew automatically, please follow the directions set out under "Cancellation At Any Time With No Refund" above. 14. Specific Terms Controlling the Premium Services. 15 Arbitration
Use of the Premium Services shall be subject to the additional terms and conditions found here.

13. **RENEWALS**.
Arbitration of Disputes. You and InChristWeTrust agree that any disputes arising out of or related to the Site, the Services, this Agreement and/or any policies or practices of InChristWeTrust (a “Dispute”) will be subject to FINAL AND BINDING ARBITRATION as set forth in this section, and may only be resolved through an individual arbitration governed by the Federal Arbitration Act, to the maximum extent permitted by applicable law. The only exceptions to this agreement to arbitrate Disputes are claims of infringement or misappropriation of InChristWeTrust’s copyright, patent, trade secret, trademark, service mark, trade dress or other intellectual property or proprietary rights, which InChristWeTrust may elect to have resolved by means other than arbitration. Notwithstanding the above, InChristWeTrust is always interested in attempting to resolve any Disputes by amicable and informal means, and we encourage you to contact us before resorting to arbitration. YOU AND INCHRISTWETRUST AGREE THAT WE ARE EACH GIVING UP OUR RIGHT TO GO TO COURT in connection with any Dispute, and that our rights will be determined by a NEUTRAL ARBITRATOR, NOT A JUDGE OR JURY.
No Class Actions. YOU AND INCHRISTWETRUST ACKNOWLEDGE THAT NEITHER OF US WILL BRING OR PARTICIPATE IN ANY CLASS ACTION OR OTHER CLASS PROCEEDING IN CONNECTION WITH ANY DISPUTE WITH THE OTHE PARTY. Further, neither you nor InChristWeTrust agrees to class arbitration or any arbitration where a person brings a dispute as a representative of other person(s).
Arbitration Procedure. If the parties are unable to resolve a Dispute by informal means, the arbitration of Disputes will be administered by the American Arbitration Association (AAA), a non-profit organization not affiliated with InChristWeTrust, in accordance with its Commercial Arbitration Rules, and if deemed appropriate by the arbitrator, the Supplementary Procedures for Consumer-Related Disputes. You can find further details about the arbitration procedure by clicking here.
Encorcement. Any proceeding to enforce this arbitration agreement may be brought in any court of competent jurisdiction.
Limitation of Time Period to Commence a Dispute. Regardless of any statute or law to the contrary, and to the maximum extent permitted by applicable law, any Dispute must be filed within one (1) year after the date in which the incident giving rise to the Dispute occurred. Failure to file an arbitration claim as described above within the applicable limitations period constitutes a waiver of such claim and serves as complete bar to any claim based on any Dispute.
16. General Provisions.
Right to Seek Injunction. Violation of this Agreement may cause InChristWeTrust irreparable harm, and therefore agree that InChristWeTrust will be entitled to seek extraordinary relief in court, including but not limited to temporary restraining orders, preliminary injunctions and permanent injunctions without the necessity of posting a bond or other security, in addition to and without prejudice to any other rights or remedies that InChristWeTrust may have for a breach of this Agreement.
Miscellaneous. This Agreement, which you accept upon registration for the Services, the Privacy Statement located on the Site, and any applicable payment, renewal, additional Services terms, comprise the entire agreement between you and InChristWeTrust regarding the use of this Service, superseding any prior agreements between you and InChristWeTrust related to your use of this Site or Services (including, but not limited to, any prior versions of this Agreement). The FAQ's found on the Services are for informational purposes only and are not deemed to be part of this Agreement. Unless otherwise explicitly stated, the Agreement will survive termination of your registration to the Service. The failure of InChristWeTrust to exercise or enforce any right or provision of this Agreement does not constitute a waiver of such right or provision. If any provision of this Agreement is held invalid, the remainder of this Agreement will continue in full force and effect. The section titles in this Agreement are for convenience only and have no legal or contractual effect.If you believe that your copyrighted work has been copied in a way that constitutes copyright infringement and is accessible on this Site, please notify InChristWeTrust's copyright agent, as set forth in the Digital Millennium Copyright Act of 1998 (DMCA). For your complaint to be valid under the DMCA, you must provide the following information in writing: 2. Identification of the copyrighted work that you claim is being infringed; 4. Information reasonably sufficient to permit InChristWeTrust to contact you, such as your address, telephone number, and e-mail address; 6. A statement, made under penalty of perjury, that the above information is accurate, and that you are the copyright owner or are authorized to act on behalf of the owner. Designated Copyright Agent InChristWeTrust, Inc. 394 Warren Street, Boston, Massachusetts 02119. copyright@InChristWeTrust.org (only DMCA notices will be accepted at this email address. All other inquiries or requests will be discarded)18. Revision Date.
This Agreement was last revised on July 14, 2014.
The above information must be submitted to the following DMCA Agent:
5. A statement that you have a good faith belief that use of the material in the manner complained of is not authorized by the copyright owner, its agent, or law; and
3. Identification of the material that is claimed to be infringing and where it is located on the Site;
1. An electronic or physical signature of a person authorized to act on behalf of the copyright owner;
17. Digital Millennium Copyright Act Notice.
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Just like in everything else we do in life, getting into relationships, and maintaining the relationships, has a method to it. There is the right way and the wrong way. Relationship done right satisfies and continues to satisfy all parties involved in the relationship. In love relationships, the requirements are more stringent and the tolerances for the parameters are much narrower than in all the other forms of relationships. This is so because love is very fragile, and yet, the most powerful and most potent thing in the whole world and the universe.

Every relationship on the earth has a silent partner-God! Between every couple and every contract is God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit. This is the truth which we humans have conveniently swept under the rug so we could define our own terms and indulge ourselves in as much pleasure as we deem necessary. Unfortunately, taking God out of the things we do in life is detrimental to our lives and will continue to be so. The only assurance in this life is God. Outside of Him lurk grief, pains and sorrows.

As would any other father, God wants the best for each and every one of us because we are all His children-whether we acknowledge Him or not. Do not let your current religion, or lack thereof, discourage you from tasting the goodness of God. He gave His word for your benefit, mine and that of everyone else in the world. Your relationship with God is not a religious thing-it is a godly thing. His love is universal.His love leads the way for everyone who seeks the truth. God gave only one religion to the world! And that religion is "the truth".

At inchristwetrust.org we aspire to match with the person best suited for you, with acknowledgement to God who not only designed the two of you for each other but who also eagerly waits to join you together in love and blissful relationship. Doing relationships the way God intends them guarantees everything each relationship promises. So to be successful in your love relationship, do it God's way and your future is assured.

Self-assessment on the truths of God

Questions for our periodic self-assessment tools


1) Current marital status of the applicant.

a) Never married
b) Divorced
c) Widowed
d) Currently married

2) Previous marital status of the applicant

a) Never married
b) Divorced
c) Widowed

3) Are you looking for a compatible mate to date or marry?

a) Looking for someone to marry
b) Looking for someone to date but may consider marriage down the line
c) Not interested in marriage. Just looking for a companion to date exclusively.

4) Which list below (“a” to “g”) best describes the order of importance of the factor listed for the selection of a suitable mate for you? Remember, the first item must represent the strongest factor for you. And the second, the next strongest and so on.

DEFINITIONS (As they apply to our consideration on this website):

Godliness: How much your potential mate agrees with godly truth as written in the Bible (As
measured by the answers they provided to relevant questions on this survey)
Religion: The religious Affiliation or Denomination of your potential mate (Such as Christian,
Catholic, Protestant, Evangelical, Moslem, Hindu, Atheist, etc)
Culture: The community of people with common traditions, customs and beliefs to which your potential match belongs (Anglo-Saxon, African American, Spanish, European, Indian, Chinese, Asian, Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa, etc)
Nationality: Country. Political or Geographic Area of your potential match
Language: Language spoken by your potential match
Age: Age bracket of your potential match, as specified in this questionnaire
Personality: Compatibility of your potential match to your desired qualities in a potential spouse

a) Personality, Language, Culture, Godliness, Religion, Nationality, Age
b) Culture, Godliness, Language, Nationality, Personality, Age, Religion
c) Personality, Culture, Godliness, Language, Nationality, Religion, Age
d) Godliness, Personality, Culture, Language, Nationality, Religion, Age
e) Personality, Godliness, Religion, Language, Culture, Nationality, Age
f) Godliness, Personality, Religion, Culture, Age, Nationality, Language
g) Godliness, Personality, Religion, Age, Nationality, Language, Culture

5) Are you interested in receiving refresher programs that would help you understand what godly marriage is all about and how you can condition your life so you can become successful in marriage? {There is someone out there for everyone, all anybody needs to do to find that someone is search for them. But a successful marriage is not an automatic thing. That is where these refresher programs come in. They help you—as well as your potential mate—to condition your life so that you will become successful in marriage; once that special someone comes into your life.}

a) Yes
b) No

6) If while using our website to find a suitable these refresher programs help you improve your outlook on marriage—how to pick a suitable mate and how to operate in a godly marriage—would you be interested in continuing with further refresher programs that would help you and your spouse maintain a close loving relationship in your marriage that produces in both of you mutual respect and admiration. The programs will come with periodic assessments that will allow you to see your growth in godly marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

7) Faith in God

a) Do you believe in God?
i) Yes
ii) No

b) Do you believe that God is the Creator of everything on the earth and in the universe, including you?

i) Yes
ii) No

c) Do you believe that you are fearfully and wonderfully made with love, and that God has a special plan for you?

i) Yes
ii) No

d) Do you believe that God determines your destiny in life?

i) Yes
ii) No

e) Is it important for your potential spouse to believe in God?

i) Yes
ii) No

f) Which one of these do you believe that best determines the success of marriage:

i) Your knowledge of life and your personal abilities decide how well your marriage succeeds
ii) Your faith in God and obedience to Jesus Christ is all you need for your marriage to be successful
iii) Your financial success and life’s other achievements are responsible for how successful your marriage can be
iv) How well you can read your spouse and prepare yourself to accommodate your spouse’s needs is responsible for your success in marriage

8) In your understanding, which one of these methods do you think best resolves marital issues (we do not believe that you are only going to resort to one method when issues arise between you and your spouse):

a) Quietly communicate with your spouse so the two of you will resolve what you can resolve. Whatever could not be resolve, you would both leave in the hands of God and trust that He would promptly resolve it for you
b) Quietly communicate with your spouse so the two of you will resolve what you can resolve. Continue to force the issues until everything is resolved even when there is a clear line of disagreement that cannot be bridged.
c) Quietly communicate with your spouse so the two of you will resolve what you can resolve. Seek a trusted third party to help you two come to terms on those issues you could not resolve
d) Walk away and let tempers die down so both sides can see things clearly.

9) Do you believe in marriage the way God commanded in the Bible for marriage to be?

a) Yes, in all of its provisions
b) Not entirely
c) Not at all

10) Do you believe that marriage should be between one man and one woman?

a) Yes
b) No

11) Do you believe that marriage is a type for the church; where the husband is to the wife what Christ is to the church?

a) Yes
b) No

12) Do you believe that marriage should be for life; for better or for worse, in sickness or in health, in sufficiency or in lack?

a) Yes
b) No

13) Do you believe that all sexual relations must be between a husband and his wife and must be confined to their marriage only?

a) Yes
b) No

14) Do you believe that sex outside of marriage is sinful and condemned by God?

a) Yes
b) No

15) Do you believe that sex without love could scare a spouse and damage the loving relationship in a marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

16) Do you believe that a wife’s entire desires must be for her husband?

a) Yes
b) No

17) Do you believe that a husband must have a clear understanding of what God desires of Him in responsibility to his wife and children at all times, so he could provide the right leadership and direction for them?

a) Yes
b) No

18) Do you believe that ignoring a spouse amounts to denial of love to that spouse, and deeply hurts the spouse?

a) YES
b) No

19) Do you believe that a wife should submit to her husband in everything?

a) Yes
b) No

20) Do you believe that the husband must be the spiritual leader of his household to be successful as the leader of his household in every other area of life?

a) Yes
b) No

21) Do you believe that a husband must provide strong leadership and spiritual direction for his family, with clear vision and decisiveness?

a) Yes
b) No

22) Do you believe that that a wife must assist her husband, to the best of her abilities, in providing leadership and direction to their family to avoid being guilty of complicity and partial blame for any problems that may result from her husband’s negligence or incompetence?

a) Yes
b) No

23) Do you believe that a spouse’s constant nagging could disrupt the other spouse’s mental fitness and lead to great errors?

a) Yes
b) No

24) Do you believe that nagging achieves nothing in a marriage but rather inflames the situation, causes further rifts and resentment, and delays reconciliation?

a) Yes
b) No

25) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God's commands is what counts." (1 Corinthians 7:19).

a) Yes
b) No

26) Do you believe that a husband must love his wife unconditionally?

a) Yes
b) No
27) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? “If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife.” (Exodus 22:16)

a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

28) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? ““It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.” (1 Corinthian 7:1-7)

a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

29) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? “To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.” (1 Corinthian 7:10-11)

a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

30) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? “A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. 40 In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.” (1 Corinthian 7:39-40)

a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

31) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you." (James 1:19-21).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

32) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do." (James 1:22-25).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

33) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." (James 1:26-27).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

34) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment." (James 2:12-13).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

35) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? “Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land.” (Psalm 37:8-9).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian


36) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, "Go in peace; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead." (James 2:14-17).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

37) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? "But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds. Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds. You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder." (James 2:18-19).
a) Yes
b) No
c) I am not a Christian

38) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? “A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.” (1 Timothy 2:11-15)

a) Yes, I believe in the whole passage
b) I have issues with the portion that says women should learn in quietness and full submission
c) I have issues with women not being permitted to teach or assume authority over a man
d) I have issues with (b) and (c)
e) I do not believe any part of the passage at all

39) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible: “Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing. 9 I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, 10 but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.” (1 Timothy 2:8-10)

a) Yes, I believe in the whole passage
b) I have issues with the sexist attitude towards women in the Bible
c) I agree with the passage but do not think the way a woman dresses has to be dictated by the Bible
d) I do not believe any part of the passage at all

40) Do you believe that a wife must love her husband unconditionally?

a) Yes
b) No

41) Do you believe that unfaithfulness in marriage is not only limited to a spouse having sexual relations with someone else other than his/her spouse?

a) Yes
b) No

42) Do you believe that withholding your love (affection) from your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

43) Do you believe that withholding your help (assistance) from your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

44) Do you believe that deliberately spending more than usual time away from your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

45) Do you believe that increasingly seeking the company of other people of the opposite sex to compensate for what you desire but lacks from your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

46) Do you believe that carving out a separate life for yourself while you are with your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

47) Do you believe that engaging in activities that take excessive amount of your time away from your spouse just for your own satisfaction constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

48) Do you believe that taking so much time away from your spouse so you can maintain old friendship at the objection of your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

49) Do you believe that deliberately engaging in annoying or disruptive behavior to put distance between you and your spouse constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

50) Do you believe that pursuing an ambition that solely satisfies your desires at the expense of things that add value and significance to your marriage constitutes unfaithfulness in the marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

51) Do you believe that showing little or no interest in what your spouse is doing constitutes unfaithfulness in a marriage, except where that particular activity is a bone of contention in the marriage already?

a) Yes
b) No

52) Do you believe that unchecked ego could ruin a good thing—in our application, a good marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

53) Do you believe that fighting with a spouse over the spouse’s responsibility in which the spouse lacks control at the time in question is tantamount to feeding poison to the marriage, and constitutes unfaithfulness?

a) Yes
b) No

54) Are you ready to get into a marriage and remain in it for the rest of your life?

a) Yes
b) No

55) Do you believe that the husband is the head of the wife in a marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

56) Do you believe that the roles in a marriage for the husband and the roles for the wife should remain the same throughout the marriage, or should the roles be switched based on income, assertiveness or other dominant qualities?

a) Yes
b) No

57) Are you prepared to get involved in a marriage where the husband is the head of the wife?

a) Yes
b) No

58) Do you believe that marriage belongs entirely to God?

a) Yes
b) No

59) Do you believe that only godly marriage can succeed according to God’s plan? (Because there are some in the world who are deeply spiritual and have deep reverence for God, and respect and compassion for humanity but have no other alternative for religion but the religion of choice in their land; we would for that purpose here define godly marriage as a marriage that incorporates God’s framework and operates within the confines of faith in a religion; and not necessarily as a marriage between a Christian man and a Christian woman):

a) Yes, godly marriage is the only marriage that works
b) Not necessarily! Some other definitions of marriage are also true
c) God has nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is simply what the two people agreeing to marry decide it is for them.

60) Abraham and the ancient people of God did not have the kind of technology we are using on this website to assess compatibility for marriage and yet they were immensely successful; what do you believe accounts for their success?

a) Faith in God and faith in Jesus Christ
b) Their world and their lives were less sophisticated, and they believed everything without question
c) They were very likely less intelligent than we are today
d) We have advanced so much it is almost a sin to trust what you hear without first certifying it
e) God worked more on their behalf because they did not have our technologies than He is working for us today since we can ascertain things for ourselves

61) Can we today be as successful if we do marriage the same way and strictly follow the Bible, or has God antiquated simple belief, without seeking verification?

a) We can be as successful today as they were in the ancients by simply believing everything God says in the Bible. Our technologies today are simply useful tools that help us transverse the huge distances that separate people of the same faith and conviction so they could find one another
b) We have to seek verification when possible, instead of believing everything because the Bible says so
c) We simply have to believe in science and always verify before we believe

62) God assures us in the Bible that He never changes, so if He never changes, do you believe that God’s requirement for humanity changes?

a) No! God’s requirement for mankind remains the same from the beginning to the end, so whatever the Bible says is the truth we must follow
b) Yes! Times have changed and God’s requirements for humanity have as well. We have to apply the modern knowledge to the claims of the Bible to be sure of what God wants from us today
c) It is not God’s requirement for humanity that have changed. It how we interpret the things in the Bible that needs to change to accommodate modern realities

63) Are you interested in a marriage that will last you a lifetime or do you believe in divorce when it falls apart?

a) I am very much interested in a marriage that will last me a lifetime. I take my role in marriage seriously and am ready to abide by all the commandments of God to the best of my abilities, and always learn from God and the Bible to improve myself and my marriage
b) I am interested in a marriage that will last me a lifetime. I take my role in marriage seriously but can only do what I believe is right to keep my marriage.
c) I am interested in marriage that fits my life’s expectation and would do what is reasonable to keep my marriage.
d) Nothing is perfect in marriage and that goes for marriage too. I hope that my marriage works and would do my best to make it work. But where what I do is not enough, I will be ready to call it quits

64) Is God truly interested in who you marry and how well you live with that person and family you have together?

a) Yes God is truly interested in everything I do, including everything about my marriage, and He is the way that really steer things in the right direction for us in the marriage
b) I believe in God, but who I marry and how well we do in the marriage solely depends on how both of us manage the marriage
c) God may be responsible for the big things but the details my spouse and I have to work out
d) What you get is what you put in. God has nothing to do with it

65) On faith in Jesus Christ

a) Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God?

i) Yes
ii) No

b) Does it matter that your potential spouse believes in Jesus Christ?

i) Yes
ii) No

c) Do you believe that Jesus Christ sacrificed His life on the cross to take away all your sins so you may receive God’s mercy, His grace and His salvation?

i) Yes
ii) No

d) Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the only way to God, to life and to salvation?

i) Yes
ii) No

e) Do you believe that Christ continues to operate in you to fulfill your life?

i) Yes
ii) No


f) Do you believe that without Christ in your life, life will be both difficult and confusing?

i) Yes
ii) No
iii) I am not a Christian

66) On Confidence in God

a) Do you trust God to accomplish for you everything He promises in the Bible?

i) Yes
ii) No

b) Does it matter for your potential spouse to trust in God and have confidence in Him?

i) Yes
ii) No

c) Do you believe there is Heaven and there is Hell?

i) Yes
ii) No

d) Do you trust God to save you from your difficulties?

i) Yes
ii) No

e) Do you trust that God will be there for you even when you falter?

i) Yes
ii) No

f) Would you want God to be there for you even when you falter?

i) Yes
ii) No


67) On Confidence in the Bible

a) Do you believe that the Bible is the word of God?

i) The Bible is the uncompromising word of God
ii) Some of the Bible is the word of God, but others are human fabrications
iii) Some parts of the Bible are outdated and should be made to agree with the times
iv) I do not believe in the Bible. It is just another book.

b) Do you trust the Bible to lead you to the truth in spite of the different translation differences; because it is not only the prints in the Bible that leads to the truth but also the power of the Holy Spirit that is with you as you read through the Bible?

i) I completely trust the Bible
ii) I trust the Bible when it agrees with reality or science
iii) I trust certain claims of the Bible but a little doubtful on some of its claims
iv) I do not trust the Bible at all. I trust science unwaveringly.
v) I do not trust anything. I make up my mind as I go.

c) Which convinces you the most on any important issues of life?

i) What the Bibles says, even when it contradicts what you have come to believe or what any other source claims
ii) What, in your experience, you have established to be the truth, even though it is incorrect according to the Bible
iii) What you heard from a preacher, even though the Bible does not support what the preacher says
iv) What science says, even though it contradicts the Bible

d) If and when you disagree with your spouse on the truth on a particular issue, how would you resolve it?

i) Argue from your perspective until your spouse succumbs.
ii) Search through the Bible and when you find the truth, politely call your spouse’s attention to it.

(1) If your spouse still does not agree with you, refer the matter to your priest to prove you are right
(2) Refer the matter to your priest to help your spouse come to terms with the truth because it is an essential part of your spouse’s faith
(3) Continue to argue until your spouse accepts the truth from you
(4) Leave it to God so He would at His time bring the correction to whatever side that needs it.

e) When you have problems in your life where do you turn to first for solution?

i) The Bible, Prayers and the church
ii) A friend
iii) A parent
iv) Professional advice
v) A colleague at work

f) Do you believe that the Bible is literal and entirely truthful?

i) When you doubt something the Bible says, what do you trust for the truth on that matter?

(1) Science and Evolution
(2) Another Religion
(3) Intuition
(4) Philosophy

ii) Does this alternate source work for you all the time and settle the issue for you once and for all?

(1) Yes
(2) No

iii) Does that make you question the rest of the Bible and cause you to lose confidence in the Bible?

(1) Strongly
(2) Somewhat
(3) Not at all

68) On Worship of God

a) What constitutes worship to you:

i) Going to church on Sundays and being
ii) Living a prayerful life
iii) Giving alms and charity
iv) Applying all the teachings of the Bible in your everyday life and in all you do
v) Witnessing for Jesus Christ

b) Do you belong to a church?

i) Yes
ii) No

69) Would you want to belong to a church with your spouse and live a life of worship together?

a) Yes
b) No

70) Are you more interested in continuing with your current Christian denomination with your spouse or are you open to switch to whatever denomination that better suits your marriage and your devotion to God and family.

a) I plan to continue with my current denomination. Unfortunately do not have room for any adjustments at this point but may sometime in the future
b) I plan to continue with my current denomination but would seriously consider other denominations if any other is better suited to our lives together.
c) Switching denominations is simply not an option for me for reasons of my faith.

71) Do you currently participate in the church’s activities?

i) Very actively
ii) Somewhat active
iii) Not really

b) Do you attend church services regularly?

i) Yes
ii) No

c) Is it important to you that someone you marry currently belongs to a church?

i) Yes
ii) No

d) Does it matter to you that your spouse attends the same church as you do when you become married?

i) Yes
ii) No

e) Does it matter to you that your spouse attends church services regularly?

i) Yes
ii) No

f) Are you looking for someone who already goes to church regularly or can you accommodate someone who has the willingness to go to church and become a Christian?

i) I am looking for someone who is already a Christian and regularly goes to church
ii) I am looking for someone who is a believer and who will be willing to go to church with me
iii) Christian denomination is not an issue
iv) Religion is not an issue

72) On Going to church

a) Do you currently attend church services?

i) Yes
ii) No

b) Does going to church achieve anything for you?

i) Yes
ii) No

c) Do you currently engage in other church activities?

i) Very actively
ii) Somewhat actively
iii) Not much

d) Do you plan to continue your church activities when you marry and settle down?

i) Yes, but to the extent it works for my spouse and I, and the rest of our family
ii) My church life is settled and I would like it to remain the same or get even stronger when I find love and marry
iii) Not really. I am currently using them to fill my free time



73) On the Commandments of God

a) Do you believe that all the commandments of God in the Bible are true? If not, what percentage of the commandments do you think is true (estimate):

i) 100%
ii) 90-99%
iii) 80-89%
iv) 70-79%
v) Below 70%

b) Do you believe it is your duty as a believer of Jesus Christ to obey all of God’s commandments?

i) Yes, I believe it is my duty to obey all and I am determined to do my best in being in obedience in all
ii) Yes, I believe it is my duty to obey all the commandments but it is not humanly possible for any human being to obey all the commandments
iii) I do not believe I have to worry about being in obedience because Jesus Christ has met all of that for me. I believe in Him as my Lord and Savior and that is all that counts
iv) It is my duty to be a in touch with reality, whatever that is, and to treat everybody with respect and dignity and honor my society

74) On rationalizing everything as a way of not doing them
75) On Prayer
76) Loyalty to one another
77) On Honesty and sincerity
78) On Reliability
79) On Patience – waiting for God’s timing
80) On configuring everything in their life to God
81) On trusting even when things are hopeless
82) On perseverance – trusting in God even when things look hopeless
83) On longsuffering – Do you believe in suffering for Christ to share in Christ?

84) About you

a) Registration form which captures the following:

i) Name and aliases
ii) Address and phone number
iii) Email addresses and websites
iv) Ancestry, color, height, weight, eye color, hair color, built,
v) Education and degrees and discipline, school location
vi) Profession and current title
vii) Salary bracket and years on the job
viii) Religion
ix) Birthday, country of birth
x) Country of origin and nationality
xi) Languages spoken
xii) Cultural origin

b) Your character attributes

i) So we may best match you with some most compatible with you, do you have any disabilities that a potential mate needs to know before they meet you to avoid any unpleasant surprises: physical, emotional, mental, social, etc
i) How you describe yourself: Honest, generous, sensual, vivacious, wise, stable, energetic, warm, predictable, affectionate, intelligent, bossy, witty, attractive, loyal, sensitive, opinionated, selfish stubborn, aggressive, outspoken, shy, reserved, restless, romantic, selfish, patient, passionate, caring, attentive, Extroverted, introverted or a mixture, outgoing, fun, funny, pleasant to be with, creative, innovative, original, jealous, confident, assured, gentle, talkative, self-starter, deep and resourceful, shallow and petty, moral, considerate, looks out for others, believes in society, moral, agitating, obnoxious, irritating, inconsiderate, self-absorbed, respectful of others,
ii) How others may describe you: Honest, generous, sensual, vivacious, wise, stable, energetic, warm, predictable, affectionate, intelligent, bossy, witty, attractive, loyal, sensitive, bright, brilliant, opinionated, selfish, stubborn, aggressive, outspoken, shy, reserved, restless, romantic, self-centered, patient, passionate, caring, attentive, considerate, loving, warm and receptive, inviting, copycat, unstable, envious, jealous, confident, assured, hesitant, unsure, procrastinator, gentle, talkative, deep and resourceful, shallow and petty, argumentative, a crowd pleaser, entertaining, easy to teach, listens or always prefers to speak, considerate, looks out for others, believes in society, moral, agitating, obnoxious, irritating, inconsiderate, self-absorbed, respectful of others, secretive, a blabbermouth

c) Your social and preferred activities: music, movies, soccer, basketball, civic organizations,

85) About The person you are looking for

a) Preferred language

i) Igbo,
ii) Yoruba,
iii) Hausa,
iv) English,
v) French, etc

b) Preferred culture

i) Igbo,
ii) Yoruba,
iii) Anglo-Saxon ,
iv) Asian, etc

c) Preferred religion

i) Christianity,
ii) Islam,
iii) Judaism,
iv) Hindu, etc

d) Preferred ethnicity

i) white,
ii) African American,
iii) African,
iv) Indian, etc

e) Preferred education

i) At least a High school diploma,
ii) BS
iii) Graduate degrees
iv) Does not care to specify

f) Preferred profession

i) Medical Doctor,
ii) Pharmacist,
iii) Nurse/Nurse Practitioner,
iv) Radiologist,
v) Accountant
vi) Etc

g) Preferred nationality

i) American,
ii) Indian,
iii) Nigerian,
iv) British,
v) Dutch, etc

h) Preferred age bracket,

i) 18-22,
ii) 23-27,
iii) 28-32,
iv) 33-39,
v) 40-45,
vi) 46-50,
vii) 51-55,
viii) 56-63,
ix) 64-70

i) Preferred geographical region

i) My city or county
ii) My state
iii) My country
iv) North America
v) South America
vi) Asia
vii) Europe
viii) Africa

86) Is your parents’/Family’s consent required before you can commit to a suitable mate for marriage?

a) Yes
b) No

87) If yes, have you obtained that consent to find a suitable mate and get married?

a) Yes
b) No

88) If you have not yet obtained your family’s consent, how long could that process add to your timetable to get married? (We understand that your family may be living in a different country than you, so properly informing them and securing their support and goodwill may take some time, and may even require you to travel to discuss the issue with them.)

a) 0-1 months
b) 3 months
c) More than 3 months

d)

89) How soon do you plan to get married if you were to find a suitable mate right away? Factor in the time you need to get to know the person and get comfortable with the person?

a) Within 6 months
b) Within 1 year
c) Within 2 years
d) Longer than 2 years

90) Are you ready to relocate when you find a suitable partner?

a) Yes
b) No

91) If you are ready to relocate, how far are you willing to go?

a) Anywhere within my country
b) Anywhere in the USA
c) Anywhere in Europe
d) Anywhere in Asia
e) Anywhere in Africa
f) Anywhere in South America
g) Anywhere in North America

92) Do you believe that God holds marriage in such a high regard that He makes special allowances for couples who are newly married so that they could really bond and enrich each other’s life? (Deuteronomy 24:5)

a) Yes
b) No

93) Do you believe in the following passage from the Bible? “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.” (Proverbs 22:24-25)

a) Yes
b) No

94) Do you believe that the following passage is true? “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1).

a) Yes
b) No


95) Do you believe in the following assessment? Marriage was created by God to help mankind live holy. God designed marriage in a way that it neutralizes the uncleanliness of sex. That is why sex within a marriage produces godly offspring; and sex outside of marriage is sinful and corrupts both the body and the soul. Nobody changes the law of God and remains safe and secure—any God's law.

a) Yes
b) No

96) Do you believe that extramarital sex is sinful and deeply offensive to God? And that God would bring very serious consequences on the life of the spouse that had the extra-marital sex? (1 Chronicles 5:1-2) and (Hebrews 13:4)

a) Yes
b) No

97) Do you believe in the following assessment? Being married to each other is what the man and the woman in marriage has become and must remain to the end of their natural lives. (Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:8-9). It is not just a relationship; it is their new joint identity and must remain that way till one of them dies. Being married to each other is now the person they have become—the one body the Bible describes—and they must be treated as such by everyone. Any consideration anywhere in the world for the man involves consideration for the woman he is married to, and vice versa.

a) Yes
b) No

98)

metinchrist.com covenant relationship privacy policy

Your privacy is very important to us. Accordingly, we have developed this Policy in order for you to understand how we collect, use, communicate and disclose and make use of personal information. The following outlines our privacy policy.

Before or at the time of collecting personal information, we will identify the purposes for which information is being collected.
We will collect and use of personal information solely with the objective of fulfilling those purposes specified by us and for other compatible purposes, unless we obtain the consent of the individual concerned or as required by law.
We will only retain personal information as long as necessary for the fulfillment of those purposes.
We will collect personal information by lawful and fair means and, where appropriate, with the knowledge or consent of the individual concerned.
Personal data should be relevant to the purposes for which it is to be used, and, to the extent necessary for those purposes, should be accurate, complete, and up-to-date.
We will protect personal information by reasonable security safeguards against loss or theft, as well as unauthorized access, disclosure, copying, use or modification.
We will make readily available to customers information about our policies and practices relating to the management of personal information.
We are committed to conducting our business in accordance with these principles in order to ensure that the confidentiality of personal information is protected and maintained.



What Information We Collect

The types of information that we collect fall under two general categories: personally identifiable information (PII) and non-personally identifiable information (non-PII). PII consists of any information which can be used to specifically identify you as an individual, whereas non-PII consists of aggregate information or any information that does not reveal your identity. The following sections describe how your PII and non-PII are collected by us, and how we use such information.

How We Collect and Use Information

Log Files. Any time you visit any of our websites, our servers automatically gather information from your browser (such as your IP addresses, browser type, Internet service provider (ISP), referring/exit pages, platform type, date/time stamp, and number of clicks) to analyze trends, administer the site, prevent fraud, track visitor movement in the aggregate, and gather broad demographic information. For example, we may log your IP address for system administration purposes. IP addresses are logged to track a user’s session. This gives us an idea of which parts of our site users are visiting. We do not share the log files externally.
Cookies. We use “cookies” to keep track of some types of information while you are visiting our website or using our services. Cookies are very small files placed on your computer, and they allow us to count the number of visitors to our website and distinguish repeat visitors from new visitors. They also allow us to save user preferences and track user trends. We rely on cookies for the proper operation of our website; therefore if your browser is set to reject all cookies, the website will not function properly. Users who refuse cookies assume all responsibility for any resulting loss of functionality. We do not link the cookies to any PII.
Web Beacons. “Web beacons” (also known as “clear gifs” and “pixel tags”) are small transparent graphic images that are often used in conjunction with cookies in order to further personalize our website for our users and to collect a limited set of information about our visitors. We may also use web beacons in email communications in order to understand the behavior of our customers. We do not link the web beacons to any PII.
Mobile Analytics. We use mobile analytics software to allow us to better understand the functionality of our mobile software on your phone. This software may record information such as how often you use the application, the events that occur within the application, aggregated usage, performance data, and where the application was downloaded from. We do not link the information we store within the analytics software to any PII you submit within the mobile application.
Information About You. When you register or subscribe to any of our services, we collect a wide variety of information about you. For our Singles service, for example, you provide us with answers to our proprietary questionnaire, and we use your answers to build a personality profile for you and to match you with other compatible singles. Your individual responses to the questions about your personality in our questionnaire will be held strictly confidential, while other non-PII about yourself (such as first name, occupation, height, etc.) will be used to build your "My Profile." We may also display your marital status and most recent log-in date and other profile/account information to your matches. Finally, for interactive content and community services such as Advice where you may choose to have a public profile, we may display your information to other community members and visitors. You may choose to provide us with your photo(s) or video(s) and by providing us such content, you agree that we may make them available to your matches and users of InChristWeTrust’s services. Except as otherwise stated in this privacy statement, we do not disclose your PII to your matches or other users of our services.
Purchase Information. To process purchases, we may require your name, address, phone number, email address and credit card information. Such information is used primarily to process your order or as otherwise described herein. Credit card transactions are processed through industry standard Secure Socket Layer (SSL) and/or strong encryption (3DES) by a third party, which only uses your information for that purpose.
E-mails and Telephone Calls. We require an e-mail address from you when you register for our services. We use your e-mail for both transactional (e.g., order confirmation, refund and renewal processing, notifying of matches for our Singles service) and promotional (e.g., newsletters, new product offerings, special discounts, event notifications, special third-party offers) purposes. E-mail messages we send you may contain code that enables our database to track your usage of the e-mails, including whether the e-mail was opened and what links (if any) were clicked. If you would rather not receive promotional e-mails from us, please see the section below labeled “Choice/Opt-Out”. We reserve the right to send you certain communications relating to the InChristWeTrust services, such as service announcements and administrative messages, without offering you the opportunity to opt out of receiving them. We may also contact you by telephone or text message (including to any wireless number you may provide to us) solely in connection with InChristWeTrust’s services. If you would rather not receive telephone calls or text messages from us, you may change or delete your number from your account preferences page(s), or ask to be removed from our contact list if you receive a call or text message from us. We fully comply with the requirements of the U.S. CAN-SPAM Act.
Mobile Device If you use a mobile device to access our site or download any of our applications, we may collect device information (such as your mobile device ID, model and manufacturer), operating system and version information, and IP address. We collect your geolocational information only upon your consent.
Demographic Data. Demographic data is also collected at our site. We use this data to tailor our visitors’ experience at our site, showing them content that we think they might be interested in, and displaying the content according to their preferences. Some of this information may be shared with advertisers on a non-personally identifiable basis.
Online Survey Data. We may periodically conduct voluntary member surveys. We encourage our members to participate in such surveys because they provide us with important information regarding the improvement of our services. You may also volunteer for certain surveys that we may offer to our users, and any additional rules regarding the conduct of such surveys will be disclosed to you prior to your participation. We do not link the survey responses to any PII, and all responses are anonymous.
Information Regarding Your Friends. We encourage you to refer a friend to our Singles service by sending us a friend’s name and email address. We will keep this information in our database, and send that person a one-time e-mail containing your name and inviting them to visit our site. This e-mail will also include instructions on how to remove their information from our database. You agree that you will not abuse this feature by entering names and addresses of those who would not be interested in InChristWeTrust’s services. For some of our services, you may also give gift memberships to your friends, in which case we will use your friends’ e-mail address that you provide in order to deliver the gift.
Public Forums. Our Advice blog contains posts which are relevant to dating and relationships and is available to our users and visitors. Any information that is disclosed in the comments section of any Advice post becomes public information and you should exercise caution when deciding to disclose any PII. Please consult the community guidelines for each InChristWeTrust discussion board when posting comments on them for other specific information. To request removal of your personal information from our blog, contact us at advicealerts@InChristWeTrust.org . In some cases, we may not be able to remove your personal information, in which case we will let you know if we are unable to do so.
Use for Research. In addition to the uses outlined above, by using our site, you agree to allow us to anonymously use the information from you and your experiences to continue our research into successful relationships. This research, conducted by psychologists and behavior research scientists, may be published in academic journals. However, all of your responses will be kept anonymous, and no PII will be published. You can find out more about the standards we follow in conducting scientific research by clicking here.
Mobile Device Additional Terms

Mobile Device If you use a mobile device to access our site or download any of our applications, we may collect device information (such as your mobile device ID, model and manufacturer), operating system and version information, and IP address.
Geo-Location Information. We do not ask you for, access or track any location-based information from your mobile device at any time while downloading or using our Mobile Apps or services.
Push Notifications. We send you push notifications if you choose to receive them for notifying you of matches for our singles service, letting you know when someone has sent you a message, or for other service-related matters. If you wish to opt-out from receiving these types of communications you may turn them off at the device level.
Disclosure of Your Information

Disclosure to Your Matches. . As an integral part of providing the InChristWeTrust service, we will disclose your profile information to your matches. Photos and other profile information posted by you will be available to subscribers that are matched with you. We may also make features available enabling your matches to share your profile information, including photos, with members of their social network(s). We never share your contact information with your matches.
Disclosure By Law. You acknowledge and agree that we may disclose information you provide if required to do so by law, at the request of a third party, or if we, in our sole discretion, believe that disclosure is reasonable to (1) comply with the law, requests or orders from law enforcement, or any legal process (whether or not such disclosure is required by applicable law); (2) protect or defend InChristWeTrust’s, or a third party’s, rights or property; or (3) protect someone’s health or safety, such as when harm or violence against any person (including you) is threatened.
Disclosure to Protect Abuse Victims. Notwithstanding any other provision of this privacy statement or our Terms and Conditions of Service, we reserve the right, but have no obligation, to disclose any information that you submit to the services, if in our sole opinion, we suspect or have reason to suspect, that the information involves a party who may be the victim of abuse in any form. Abuse may include, without limitation, elder abuse, child abuse, spousal abuse, neglect, or domestic violence. Information may be disclosed to authorities that we, in our sole discretion, deem appropriate to handle such disclosure. Appropriate authorities may include, without limitation, law enforcement agencies, child protection agencies, or court officials. You hereby acknowledge and agree that we are permitted to make such disclosure.
Disclosure to Trusted Third Parties By Us. We may share your non-PII with third parties, but not in a manner that would reveal your identity. We may share your PII, sometimes in conjunction with your non-PII, with service providers that may be associated with us to perform functions on our behalf. For example, outsourced customer care agents or technology assistants may need access to your information to perform services for you. Your information will be treated as private and confidential by such service providers and not used for any other purpose than we authorize. In addition, from time to time, we may share PII (such as e-mail or mailing address) about our user base with carefully selected third parties, so they can offer goods and services that we believe may be of interest to our users. If you do not wish to receive offers from our trusted partners, you can change your e-mail preferences at any time by following the steps outlined in the “Choice/Opt-Out” section below.
Disclosure to Trusted Third Parties at Your Request. When purchasing an InChristWeTrust subscription or while visiting our site, we may provide you with advertisements, promotions, sweepstakes and offers from third party providers. If you choose to accept any such offers, you may either (depending on the situation) directly provide your information in connection with the offer to such third party provider, or we will provide your information, including billing information, to the third party provider by pre-populating the offer registration forms. Your information will not be transferred until you actually accept the offer. You may opt-out of the offer at any time up until this point. Please refer to the third party provider’s own privacy policy (provided on the offer pages) if you have any questions regarding how your information is used by such providers. Please be aware that these offers may be presented on pages framed by an InChristWeTrust website. We do this to provide a seamless experience. Although these offer pages have the look and feel of our websites, you will be submitting your information directly to the third-party advertiser. You agree that we will not be responsible or liable for any loss or damage of any sort incurred as the result of any such dealings, including the sharing of the information you supply to us with third party providers described here, or as the result of the presence of such providers on an InChristWeTrust site.
Search Engine. Some portions of your profile may be available to search engine crawlers and therefore may appear in internet search results, but no PII (e.g., last name, photos) will be included in such search results. Because your submissions to the In My Words sections of your profile may be publicly available, we strongly encourage you not to disclose PII or contact information in such areas of your profile.
Information Transferred As a Result of Sale of Business. As we develop our business, we may buy or sell assets and, depending on the transaction, your PII may be one of the transferred assets. In the event that we are acquired by another company, your PII may be part of the assets transferred to the acquiring party. If this occurs, you will be notified if there are any material changes to the way your PII is collected or used.
Third-Party Advertising

We may use third-party advertising agencies or other service providers to serve ads on our website on behalf of InChristWeTrust or third-party advertisers (e.g., retailers of goods or services). These companies may employ cookies and web beacons to measure advertising effectiveness. Any information that these third parties collect via cookies and web beacons is completely anonymous. Some of these third-party advertising agencies may be members of the Network Advertising Initiative, which offers you the option to opt out of ad targeting from its member agencies by following the procedures listed here.

Third Parties, with whom we partner to display advertising based upon your web browsing activity, use Flash cookies to collect and store information. Flash cookies are different from browser cookies because of the amount of, type of, and how data is stored. Cookie management tools provided by your browser will not remove Flash cookies. To learn how to manage privacy and storage settings for Flash cookies click here: http://www.macromedia.com/support/documentation/en/flashplayer/help/settings_manager.html#117118

We will only share your information with third parties in the ways defined in this privacy statement.

Age Restrictions

Our age restrictions for different services are set forth in each applicable Terms and Conditions of Service. We do not target our sites or services to children under the age of 13, and in compliance with the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act, any information we may receive from users we believe to be under the age of 13 will be purged from our database.

Security

We have extensive security measures in place to protect the loss, misuse and alteration of the information stored in our database. These measures include the use of Secure Socket Layer (SSL) and/or strong encryption (3DES) technology during credit card transactions and administrative access to site data, as well as other proprietary security measures which are applied to all repositories and transfers of user information. We will exercise reasonable care in providing secure transmission of information between your computer and our servers, but given that no information transmitted over the Internet can be guaranteed 100% secure, we cannot ensure or warrant the security of any information transmitted to us over the Internet and hence accept no liability for any unintentional disclosure.

Links to or Access from Other Sites

You may be able to access your account or content of your account from third party sites, such as social networking sites, by way of various applications. The privacy policies and practices of such sites in connection with information you disclose on such sites may differ from the practices of InChristWeTrust as set forth in this privacy statement, and you should review their policies and practices to ensure that the privacy of the information you submit on their site does not conflict with and is consistent with how you wish your information to be treated. Such sites may also place their own cookies or other files on your computer, collect data or solicit personal information from you. We are not responsible for the privacy policies or practices or the content of any other websites that may provide access to, or be linked to or from, this site, including that of any social networking sites and third party advertisers whose offerings require you to navigate away from our site.

Choice/Opt-Out

You may use the following options for removing your information, including an unauthorized profile, from our e-mail database if you wish to opt out of receiving promotional e-mails and newsletters.

Click on the “unsubscribe” link on the bottom of the e-mail;
Send mail to the following postal address letting us know which promotional e-mails you wish to opt-out of: InChristWeTrust, Inc. 394 Warren Street Boston, Massachusetts 02119 USA
For the InChristWeTrust Singles service, select our Help link from your account home page and search our FAQ's to find the answer you are looking for, or send us an e-mail and our Customer Care agents will be happy to assist you; or
For any services that allow you to control which e-mails you receive, go to the e-mail settings page from your account home page, and un-check the undesired promotions.
Updating Your Information

InChristWeTrust provides users the following options for changing and modifying information previously submitted, , including deletion of your personal information.

For the InChristWeTrust Singles service, select our Help link from your account home page and search our FAQ's to find the answer you are looking for, or send us an e-mail and our Customer Care agents will be happy to assist you;
For any services where you have an account page, you may change your credit card (if applicable), e-mail address, password and other information from the account settings or preferences page; or
You can send mail to the postal address listed above, providing us with your account information and letting us know which information you wish to update.
Data Retention

Because many users tend to use our service at different points of their relationship-seeking life, we retain your personal information for continued service and convenience purposes until you advise us not to do so. Notwithstanding the foregoing, we may retain personal information in order to comply with applicable laws, keep accurate records, resolve disputes, prevent fraud, enforce our Terms and Conditions of Service or other agreements, or for any other legally permissible purpose.

Contacting the Website

If you have any questions about this privacy statement, the practices of this site, or your dealings with any InChristWeTrust websites, you can contact:

Site Administrator InChristWeTrust, Inc. 394 Warren Street Boston, Massachusetts 02119

Acceptance of Privacy Statement

Your use of our website(s), including any dispute concerning privacy, is subject to this privacy statement and the applicable Terms and Conditions of Service. BY USING OUR WEBSITE, YOU ARE ACCEPTING THE PRACTICES SET OUT IN THIS PRIVACY STATEMENT AND THE APPLICABLE TERMS AND CONDITIONS OF SERVICE.

If we decide to change our privacy policy, we will post those changes to this privacy statement page and any other places we deem appropriate so that you are aware of what information we collect, how we use it, and under what circumstances, if any, we disclose it. We reserve the right to modify this privacy statement at any time, so please review it frequently. If we make material changes to this policy, we will notify you here, or by other means, such as e-mail, at our discretion.

Your continued use of any portion of our website following posting of the updated privacy statement will constitute your acceptance of the changes.

Effective Date

This privacy statement was last revised on Jan 15, 2015.



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About Truth and Life Institute and Contacts

Our Mission
The mission of this ministry is to help you, and everyone that comes to us, understand what God demands from you in each of your roles, in your many relationships, so that you can have a fruitful and contented life, and not weigh yourself down by living in ignorance of the science of life, as spoken by God and His Christ in the Bible (Matthew 7:24-27); (Colossians 1:10):
• your role and responsibilities in your marriage
• your role and responsibilities in your family
• your role and responsibilities in your workplace
• your role and responsibilities in your church/religion
• your role and responsibilities in your society/government
• your role and responsibilities in everything you commit to
Our mission of life transcends religion because life is not a religious thing (1 John 2:29)! Life is a science that was designed by God in accordance with God’s wisdom, which is the law of all things—Acts 10:34-35 NIV — “Then Peter began to speak: “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism 35 but accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right.””
As a result, whether you are religious or irreligious, you must live your life in accordance with God’s design for life, or continue to suffer the consequences of ignoring God’s science of life, and living according to your religious or scientific misinformation.
Every one of your many relationships is a full invisible electrical circuit of the most minimal current, which starts from God and ends up in God, connecting you to God, and to the person, or people, you are in that relationship with (1 Corinthians 12:12-14).
Every relationship is important to God. As a result, every relationship has its own dedicated, real but invisible, electrical circuit, that must remain open to the Holy Spirit at all time (Matthew 11:27-30)!
The word of God is not something anyone can configure whichever way they liked—as we have been doing in our uncountable denominations and religions. That is the reason why we, religious people, still perish at the same rate as non-believers (2 Corinthians 6:17).
These real, but invisible, electrical circuits, individually and together, is Jesus Christ, the Word. When we remain in this electrical circuit that is Jesus Christ in each of our relationships, we remain in Christ in that relationship (John 15:5)! But when we step away from the circuit that is Jesus Christ in any of our relationships, we get in circuit with the devil and death, in that relationship!
We must remain in circuit with Jesus Christ in every one of our relationships (John 15:5-8). Whichever one of our relationships we fail to remain in Christ in, becomes a hell for us! This is without failing.
The Current that is the Holy Spirit only passes through the invisible electrical circuit that is Jesus Christ, the same way electric current passes through the right metal wires to produce useful benefits like light, air-conditioning, heat for cooking, etc. You cannot put electrical current through, say, wood or leather strips, and expect light, air-conditioning or heat!
That is why Jesus Christ declared in John 14:6, that He is the only way to God, the only way to life, and the only way to the enlightenment of the mind—education. That apart from Him, no human being anywhere can do anything (John 15:5)! Anyone that does not connect themselves to these invisible circuits that is Jesus Christ—not religiously but in speech and in deeds—can never get to God, but to death. And His twelve apostles splendidly proved that to the world.
That the Holy Spirit of God is the Current that ignites each human life at conception, and keeps the human life lit and vibrant through the various electrical circuits that are Jesus Christ, is the reason why Jesus Christ declared in John 16:14, that it is from Him that the Holy Spirit receives what He brings to any of us.
If God is the power source and the designer and builder of life, and Jesus Christ the invisible electrical circuits that connects to all of us and all the people we are in relationships with, and the Holy Spirit is the Current that passes through these invisible electrical circuits and through all of us and our relationships, how do us being salt (Matthew 5:13) factor into all of this? ELECTROLYSIS! Big word, but do not let that stop you from understanding its simple truth.
Salts dissolve in water that is Jesus Christ who is the completion of God’s entire circuits from God, through all creations and back to God again. Once the Current of life that is the Holy Spirit start moving in these circuits the dissolved salts break apart into electrical charges that move from one end of the electrical connection to the other, allowing passage to the Current that is the Holy Spirit, to achieve all of God’s purposes for the benefit of everyone that dutifully remains connected in the circuits of their many relationships.
Do not worry about these intricate details of God’s operation in your life at this point. We will guide you through it all, and help you convince yourself, that God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit are always with you, in you, and through you to everyone you are in relationship with (Ephesians 4:6), and that the Divine Trinity continually work for your benefit because you are that important to God (John 5:17).
As salts, we must, each, dissolve in the water that is Jesus Christ for the completion of the invisible electrical circuits (1 Corinthians 12:12-14); (Matthew 11:27-30), to allow the current that is the Holy Spirit to go through us to everyone else in each of our relationships, to benefit all of us together (Ephesians 4:7); (Hebrews 6:7).
When we all live up to our respective roles and responsibilities in our relationships, our reward is the abundant life! But when we let our minds switch us from the circuit that is Jesus Christ to the circuit that is death and destruction, we impede the Current that is the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 5:30), and bring sorrow to the Circuit that is Jesus Christ.
God had designed every one of our relationships as a community in Christ (Ephesians 2:10 NIV), and had created roles in each of those relationships for every one of us to play, and discrete responsibilities for each of us to fulfil in each one of our roles in these relationships/communities (Matthew 18:20).
Jesus Christ asking that we yoke ourselves together with one another and with Him (Matthew 11:27-30), is not something new—1 Corinthians 6:19-20 NIV — “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.”
The moment each of us came into the world at birth, God had automatically put us into the circuits that are the many things we are going to be and do in life, with each manifesting itself when we become of age for that relationship. Jesus Christ commanded in Matthew 11:27-30 for us to get back into those circuits as God had purposed them in us when we each came into the world.
We have so much to help you understand and apply correctly in your day-to-day life. Come and experience the power of the word of God. God has given the truth freely to all, but we must learn it correctly to reap the benefits of it!

Our Vision
Our vision is helping you and everyone else that comes to us, become kingdom minded, instead of religious minded, because all human beings were called by God to unity and kindness inside the common household of God—Matthew 28:18-20; Ephesians 2:11-22; Hosea 6:6, as well as
Hebrews 12:11-29 NIV — “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. 12 Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees. 13 “Make level paths for your feet,” so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed.
14 Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. 16 See that no one is sexually immoral, or is godless like Esau, who for a single meal sold his inheritance rights as the oldest son. 17 Afterward, as you know, when he wanted to inherit this blessing, he was rejected. Even though he sought the blessing with tears, he could not change what he had done.
18 You have not come to a mountain that can be touched and that is burning with fire; to darkness, gloom and storm; 19 to a trumpet blast or to such a voice speaking words that those who heard it begged that no further word be spoken to them, 20 because they could not bear what was commanded: “If even an animal touches the mountain, it must be stoned to death.” 21 The sight was so terrifying that Moses said, “I am trembling with fear.”
22 But you have come to Mount Zion, to the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem. You have come to thousands upon thousands of angels in joyful assembly, 23 to the church of the firstborn, whose names are written in heaven. You have come to God, the Judge of all, to the spirits of the righteous made perfect, 24 to Jesus the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled blood that speaks a better word than the blood of Abel.
25 See to it that you do not refuse him who speaks. If they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, how much less will we, if we turn away from him who warns us from heaven? 26 At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, “Once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens.” 27 The words “once more” indicate the removing of what can be shaken—that is, created things—so that what cannot be shaken may remain.
28 Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, 29 for our “God is a consuming fire.””
Our Values
We have unshakable faith in the Bible as the true and irrevocable science of life, which was dictated by God to His prophets and Christ’s apostles through God’s immeasurable wisdom, and was validated by His Son Jesus Christ, by willingly resigning His divinity to God so He could die on the cross, and dying on the cross at Calvary at the hands of sinful men, to save all human beings of all generations!
We teach everything we teach in accordance with the commands of God in the Bible, trusting God to give us and those we teach, His blessings as rewards for our execution of our respective lives in accordance with His science of life, neither adding to, nor taking away from, the word of the truth as written in the Bible:
“As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, 11 so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. 12 You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands. 13 Instead of the thorn bush will grow the juniper, and instead of briers the myrtle will grow. This will be for the LORD’s renown, for an everlasting sign, that will endure forever.” (Isaiah 55:10-13 NIV)
The Bible is our constitution, our main textbook, and our manifesto! Come do the science of your life with us.
We value all human beings and never sends away, anyone that truly needs help from us. Anyone who asks, must also seek in order to find and receive. And whoever seeks and finds God’s door, must knock on God’s door to be let in by God (Matthew 7:7-12).
What we set out to do is to prove to the world that human beings everywhere, can live by the word of God alone! So, failure is not an option for us, because the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk, but of power (1 Corinthians 4:20).
Join us and experience the power of the word! Christ is waiting to lead you in the way you should live your life and live it abundantly, because when the life in you is abundant, there is no room in your body for death (John 8:50-51)!
Available Resources
We have the following resources for our mission: 3-Dimensional teaching objects, Books, Digital Books, Audio Books, Music, Videos, Life cards, Wallet Cards, Life Books, Keychain Tags:, etc.
Visit our website and learn more about us and the resources we have that will benefit your life and those of your family and friends.
Our website is www.Truths2020.com
Emails: truthandlifegm@gmail.com Or ngoziamaka51@gmail.com
Email us and start a dialogue with our experienced and dedicated staff who are eager to assist you in integrating the truths of God and His Christ into your everyday life. We like to hear from you.
Truth and Life Global Ministries is local in Nigeria, and has a dedicated team that will be working with you, in conjunction with our international team. We are currently working to provide a suitable physical location for our members in Lagos. Through our website and the events we plan to host in Lagos in the next several months, we will update you on our progress in this regard.
Stay tuned also about our educational efforts in Nigeria:
1) Truth and Life Science Academy provides unique God-centered education that helps each child integrate their mind with their spirit, for a life that continues to please God.
2) African Children Literacy Foundation is Truth and Life’s charitable organization that helps provide education for underprivileged children in our societies. African Children Literacy Foundation is purposed to help children remain in school, even when their parents fall into hardship and could no longer fully fund their children’s education.
When we join hands with one another, we enlighten the minds of all our young ones, regardless of their parents’ social or financial statuses.
You love when you give to lift your neighbors out of life’s many difficulties!